Living for whom

somebody asked me "ukht, why ha, most of our frens, when we invite them to surau or any progrem, they'll say 'xmola, nnt org ckp kite baik sgt' & ade gak yg 'xde kawanla nakgi'. why ar ukht? what we're suppose to do?"

i told her "maybe they don't know, just feed them with some new knowledge for then via ta`lim or any informal tarbiyah. ekceli it's a common dilemma if we don't understand Islam itself. do we think that Islam need people like us for its development? Islam don't need us, but we need Islam. so, why don't we want to be good & known as a good person? because why, you see la, if you are known as a good person, then once you do any bad deed, will people condemn you? but if you are nobody & u do anything you like, nobody will says anything. so you are living for whom?"

she nodded.